Monday, December 15, 2008

Well Well Well!



Surprise Surprise...!

The day after I wrote a sad sad blog I got this note from a friend at
http://sasafamily.blogspot.com/

"This award is given to a blog that invests and believes in PROXIMITY - nearness in space, time and relationships! These blogs are exceedingly charming. These kind bloggers aim to find and be friends. They are not interested in prizes or self-aggrandizement. Our hope is that when the ribbons of these prizes are cut, even more friendships are propagated. Please give more attention to these writers! Deliver this award to eight bloggers who must choose eight more and include this cleverly-written text into the body of their award."

It was really sweet of her to award me for my yappings :-)

Thanks SASA Family Girl ;-). You did make my day.

Friday, December 12, 2008



Its been a long time since I really blogged. The "been there done that" or read that or wrote that ( to some one if not in my blog ) attitude settles in and then I dont feel like writing anymore.

Today I have resolved to post a blog. Come what may. However lame the write up is. Those who know me know that I am a VERY VERY lazy girl and my attention span is as little as 1 millionth of a second if I am not entertained in someway or other...

Already bored...( Random thought ...Whatever happened to Randy Pausch's initiatives...Need to check up on that ... )

Back...Well I think the most important thing for me right now seems to be ( I know! the cliche laden - " Why am I in this earth? " What is it that I am suppossed to be doing. My husband, bless that simple-wise-uncomplicated soul, says to do exactly what you are doing - To wonder and then go about doing exactly the same things you are doing. My mom says I need to have a baby and wont have time to think about these things...My sis says I am wondering the exact same thing ( may be its genetic! )..And some of my friends say...hee hee...who am I kidding I dont have any friends at the moment whom I would dare and open my soul to like this and have a REAL converstation with. (Its depressing, yes! but thats me :-) )Once bitten twise shy...well in my case thrice bitten and thats the end of it!

Well back to the point...if there is one...I always wonder abt the Why-What when I am happy as well as sad and when veti or busy...( at this point I do realise that I have read and wrote quite a few existential dilemma write-up and its not new...) but todays is renewed becuase of another important thing LOVE...

Oh crap...forget it...I cant write..mainly becuase I dont think one unique original thought...I am a duplicate of someone somewhere...Oh! this is so cruel...I am starting to feel something...but I know my self-preservation mode will kick in and make me block and forget all that I am thinking and feeling and take me back to a stable feeling less state...from where I will wonder about people who are LIVING IT!...and chaste myself saying dont be greedy people in Iraq dont have water to drink or people in Indian villages dont get to go to Paris and sit and read a funny P.G Wodehouse. Then I will think in the lines of I am not such a waste...I am a wife, daughter and a sister...These people will be profoundly affected if I dont exists...(might be a real positive for my husband, but definetely a negative for my parents and sis) and then I should make it my life's mission to make them happy and for a brief second all seems to fall into place and I am happy and all clarified only to feel "Oh! not that monkish crap again! " and the cycle starts all over again...Only thing is certain in the cycle is I stop after some iteration tired of thinking ( due to lack of excercising it ! ) Hmmmm one more thing I dont excercise...and watch TV probably an nth repeat of Scrubs or Friends...

Well this is absolute shit!...People please tell me...or rather dont tell me if you life is better than this..!

Anyway remember my resolution earlier I will post any crap come what may...so here it goes!...I am sure if any organization is looking to find people who might self-immolate themself soon come across this blog they wont hesitate a second to contact me for therapy :-) :-) :-)

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Random Art Generation!



Totally love playing with this site to generate my own room feature on canavas and potential wallpaper designs

http://www.cflex.net/rico/TestRandomArthttp://ricozuniga.com/2007/09/25/dynamic-abstraction-or-randomly-generated-art/

One another website I love is this

http://websites-collection.blogspot.com/2008/05/mutapic-create-amazing-art-work.html

I want to create/find cool but inexpensive art stuff to make and hang in our home...stuff to buy are all so expensive...atleast the ones I like are...
So these seem to be ideal..buy some canavas..print on it or what the heck paint on it and u got a good one which is cheap and one u can be proud off too :-) more than anything keeps me busy

Check it out and let me know...

Thursday, May 31, 2007

PC's 11 minutes & Veronika decides to die



All my family visits are finally over and I am free and I got to finish 2-3 books this weekend. Phew!..But wow! Its fun to get back to undisturbed reading time. My time!. Here are the what I felt abt the PC's book.

Eleven Minutes : Didnt expect this book from Mr.PC. But humans cant ingore their itch, can they? I dont agree with a lot of things in the book, but then its Maria's story, so can't argue. The girl, just like most of the people in this world takes the easy road at all points except in the end. Too much justification going on.

Its a medicore read, learnt nothing new, not thought provoking at all. Making us think, easily and simply is what Mr.PC is great at. Atleast those are the things that I tend to expect and look forward to when reading a his books. But this book was like reading a preachy Mills and Boons one. Preaching and Sex dont go well together. Its not that I am Miss. Prim and Proper that I didnt like this book. Its just the simple fact that I didnt get what I expected and neither was I pleaseantly surprised.


Veronika Decides to Die: A typical PC book. Good read, makes us think and its something very important and so relevant to this world and its citizens. Why the heck arent we happy when we have got all that we could ever need at our feet? Was surprised to know that PC was admitted into a mental isntitution. When I mentioned it to my husband( who reads no other book but JAVA books) teased me to death :-) But then this is a delightful thought provoking book. Simple words but Complex matters of life. The theory put forward that "A man will LOVE his life more and LIVE more in his life only if he had prioir knowledge of his death". Through the simple peek into the lives of the patients in the mental institution Mr.PC guides us though the point. The point is not made so obvious, but we get it and we love it :-)

Well thats it..too bored to write anything more. Trying to finish Life of Pi. So far loving the book and the kid trying to be Hindu, Muslim and Christian at the same time. May GOD bless him! :-)

Monday, May 28, 2007

Cheeni Kum - Taste Zyadha!



The music of Chenni Kum by Illayaraj is anything but cheeni kum. Its sweet, tasteful, amazing, great, and divine. His eternal melody in Tamil made available in Hindi for a wider audience.

Whenever I used to listen and sing along to "Kuzhaloodhum Kannanukku Kuyil paatu kekkuta ..koo koo" and etc. I would deeply wish that my husband would love and enjoy these songs just like the way I do. This album gives us such a rare and a delicious oppurtunity.

Bangalore is so romantic these days with its May-Chillness, which itself is a miracle for a chennaite like me. How can it be possibile to be using blankets and sipping hot coffee in MAY when we are supposed to be dealing with mangoes and mores( butter milk) and the Katiri Veyil( Scissor Sun(?)). Its more more cruel than that isnt it when earth practically is a Tandoor(oven) for humans.

Way too off the line..getting back to cheeni kum, the songs, in hindi capture the real essensce of the songs in Tamil and thus retain their worship worthy quality.

Baatein Hawa - Kuzhal Oodhum Kannanukku (Mella thirandhadhu kadhavu )
Cheeni Kum - Mandram Vandha Thendralluku ( Mouna Ragam )
Sooni Sooni - Mandram Vandha Thendralluku ( Mouna Ragam )
Melody Sax's - En Illaya Pon Nillave
Jaane Do Naa - New for me, but is a 80's telgu song apparently.
Theme Melody - Original, dont know, but it takes me back to the times of my old infautated self :-)

BTW, we are having an official date tonight, a date to enjoy each other and sing along with good music, a welcome change from a date with good food you see :-) But Illayaraj's music is soothing and grand enough to fill my soul let alone my ever rumbling tummy.

DIVINE, DELICIOUS, DELIGHFUL !

Illayaraj ! The God !

Listen to it at http://www.musicplug.in/songs.php?movieid=6213

Vernon God Little - Vommit Gag Little !


I mean !...This book is realllly weird. I had to struggle at times not throw this book out of the Infy bus window. I had wanted to read this book for a long time now, but kept postponing it since I hated Catcher in the Rye and this one was touted as a worthy followers of that "legendary" book. But I am glad thought that the reader in me persisted and I liked this book. I mean I cannot claim I know/get why this book got the booker price. Anyone can write all their vomitty/sidey thoughts out, but none have yet, in this colorful way and guess that made all the difference. This guy takes the cake for being the person who can be so creative at writing dirty. Not the dirrrty (sexual) dirty, but just crapish dirty, you know what I mean? DBC Pierre. Right pseudonym, Dirty-But-Clean Pierre.

In the end, after I set aside my expectations from a booker book and opened myself to the "loser" world created by the author, I fell truly in love, so much so that I wanted to get into vernon ohsosad little's damm life and set right things one by one, starting with knowcking some sense into his not-attending-trial-waiting-for-fridge-lalito-calling mom. That pathethic lady and her pathethic existance. I mean!. People like her should never have kids. Had major fun with the Ledesma's cheap character(laid-his-ma at the end for Vernon :-) This book is comical as they claim if you get these kind of people and their life, most will, but pretend not to though, thats a whole different deal altogether.

Ending was a too abrupt for me. But thanks to author for I wud have needed much more motivation than his almost entertaining and thought provoking encounter with the axe murderer ( the only one in the book who made some sense other than his second but good lawyer ).

Final Verdict - Okay read, gross,dry, world is totally mad humor.

Wednesday, May 02, 2007

WICKED online TICKETS



Had to book a freaking ticket from Chennai to Bangalore and back.
Discovered the tricks these people play with the internet users.
Or atleast the ones that pissed me of.

Trick 1 : They claim they give 30% discount upon using XYZ credit card. You can almost climb mount everst in search of information whether the discount will apply "AT the time of buying the ticket" or later, then how later and when and the terms and condition. The second is, they mention in super small font that the offer is not on international credit cards. Is it so hard to have a clear terms and conditions beside the offer? Or atleast a separate question in FAQ section?

Piss off 2 : They keep showing some tickets as available and then AFTER entering the credit card details to book tickets, they say that "transaction succsessful" "NO TICKETS" and you check your card, the cash is gone. Then jump hoops and get panicked and call service, after a million hours on hold someone lets you know that the money will be back in your card. Cant they simply check the seats availability before the money transaction!!

Piss off 3 :Some websites/premium airlines offer taxi out of airport for 100 rupees additional cost. But they dont mention the kilometer its valid for, whether it cud be AC or non-AC, etc etc. We are left to not choosing this option becuase of unclear terms and conditions. Is it so hard to take these into consideration.

May be becuase I am an IT person who builds website and highly customer focused I expect these things, but some of these are pure common sense which every system developer and business requirements provider needs to provide.

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

A simple auto ride becomes a nightmare !


Today I took an auto to get to work and the guy politely asked for 20 rupees extra.

Considering that they generally ask for 1 and a ½ or double, I was pretty pleased and took the auto.

On reaching Infosys I found that the meter was tampered with and instead of the usual 65 it showed 85.

I asked him politely whether the meter is a good meter and he said yes and was expecting to be paid 105.

I asked him for his identification information since it wasn’t in the display to give a complaint.

He asked me to note down the taxi number. I said it is not sufficient. I asked the security for a pen and then he got agitated.

He said he cannot give me his name and address. I said then I wont give him his money.

He said go ahead and do complain that I don’t have a good meter, display and also mockingly that he is not wearing a uniform either (he was in jeans top and bottom)

He said that he knows how to collect the money, since BTM is his area.

I got really pissed at this point ( same time scared a little ) and said now he has crossed the limits and that he shd give his name and address.

He said he will start the auto and run me over!. I said go ahead, let me see!.

Then I said this is futile and I said to the security personnel who was present there that I will pay only what was discussed 65 (normal meter) + 20 = 85.

He collected the 85 and left.

Now I am really perturbed rethinking the conversation we had. It is scary.

I was wearing my ID too so he could have my name and he now knows where I work.

On one side I feel like giving a police complaint.
And on the other side I feel like if that would give him a clear path to my address, if he is a goon as he came through as.


On onside I feel that I should not have bothered with the extra 20 rupees.
On the other side I feel why should I not be while I was willing to pay extra 20 part away with another 20.


What a dilemma.

I posted this message in my company Bulletin Board and I have been receving encouraging, endearing and simple kind messages all day long. Feel so privileged to be among such people and a company that facilitates such forums. Simply Amazing.

Found from the kind people that we could register your Complaint on charging of excess fare by Autorickshaws due to Fare Meter tampering to "Assistant Controller of Legal Metrology " at the following address acat@kslmd.com or clm@kslmd.com
Phone Number : 080 - 2220 7750 or 080- 2228 4917
Could send a mail to DCP Saleem at dcptrafficeast@gmail.com
http://rto.kar.nic.in/COMPLAINTS_EXCESS_FARE.pdf

After my family discussion I wish to make a good decision. I have his auto #.

Bottom Line : A person cannot be allowed to issue violent threats or voice such nasty thoughts in public in a civilized country without facing the consequences.

I see 2 consqeuences:

Munnabhai way : I find out his identification, educate him, offer to buy him a good meter, and get him a anger management class and may be attend with him.

Legal way : Complain, follow-up, make sure he is punished.

General way : Ignore and forget.

Even though the munnabhai way looks like something a wuz would take. It truly gives peace to my heart. If I take the general way, I will consider myself a major wuz of the century.

But agreed that, to do one of the three one needs to have courage. If he is a cranky fellow, cud intimidate me again even after it taking any one of the above ways.

So all I can do now is pray to god to give me courage to pick one way and make peace with the consequences of the way.

Update: A cousin of mine ran a check for the auto ID and he is not even from Bangalore and the auto is a Maharastra registered one. She also told me that she was adviced to raise a complaint for this # since it was not even temporarily registred for transfer and that electronic city is a high security area and bombay autos shd not be allowed here for obvious reasons.

NOW, I am REALLY confused. Things have gone back to normal for me, atleast, I am worried not to start something here. But I also feel the sense of doing the right thing. :-(